Choosing Between Two Trees

Earlier this evening I was with a friend for dinner. She had a quarrel with her boyfriend(whom I've met before) and was complaining to me about it. She told me she needs space and does not want to speak to him for the time being. She even deliberately left her handphone at home so that she does not have to answer it.

Sure enough, the boyfriend called me. He was anxious and paranoid and asked if she was with me. My immediate response was no. He began to explain why he was trying to contact her. After I repeatedly promised him that I will pass the message, I managed to end the call. I then saw the relief on my friend's face.

I know I had lied. It's not a godly thing to do. Some might think it's small matter but I know a lie is a lie. It makes me realise how much God loves me and why people needs God. Thank God for Jesus who has took my sins away therefore there is no condemnation on me.

Remember how strong Pastor's attitude was towards the topic of lying? He said he would not tolerate any staff who can lie. It made me think. Is he only pointing out those who constantly lie or everyone one of us? Cos from time to time we, as humans will be tempted to lie. I mean if we can be perfect, why would God send his Son to die for us?

During last church camp I remember there was a teenage boy who asked Pastor during a Q&A session what one should do if it's a life and death situation. Pastor's immediate response was to be honest. The boy continued to give examples of situations then Pastor kinda cut him off with his stand at the topic. He told the boy God would not put us in those situations. I wanted to agree with him yet has struggles over it. His words made me think of Rahab - the woman who lied to save 2 spies. I know God would have a way to save the spies should Rahab tell the truth. Yet God cause the writer to list down this deed in the bible.

I understand the situation I was in was different from Rahab. I still love our Pastor. I just wanted to bring the topic out. We all know because of the Spirit in us what is the right thing to do. However if you were in the same situation as I today, what would you choose at that nick of time? Would you prefer to tell the boyfriend that his girlfriend was with you but does not want to speak to him?